I'm trying to plan a back yard wedding?

I think it sounds great & very nice.... I would just pick a color (like black or white) and let them wear there own dresses, so they don't have to go out & spend a fortune on something - after all you're saving on your dress, right? Maybe just simple sundresses - nice enough for a backyard wedding & get silk bouquets from Michael's or Hobby Lobby or Oriental Trading Co... BBQ is great for a backyard. You should join the OffBeat Bride site & tribe - they have a group there just for Red Dresses! a href="http://offbeatbride.com/" rel="nofollow"http://offbeatbride.com//a (go to red box for tribe) also lots of ideas for planning & stuff